"The woman who decided to abort change your mind when you feel successful, when he knows exactly what is going to happen and does not feel alone in facing." So Paolo Bonzi, director of the Center help the life of the Mangiagalli clinic in Milan says the law approved by the Texas government that states that women who choose abortion should be required to perform an ultrasound of the child before the interruption of pregnancy. The bill was sponsored by Republican Governor Rick Perry with the support of the majority, largely made up of pro life. "The goal - said Sid Miller, a member of the Legislative Assembly Texas, which has contributed to the drafting of the text - is to make sure that the woman before the abortion is made available to all available information, including medical and psychological consequences of what is happening and knows all aspects of the procedure. " Ultrasonography should be performed between 24 and 72 hours of operation, the woman can refuse to look at the pictures or hear the heartbeat but will still be required to hear the doctor explain what can be seen from X-ray.
Dr Paola Bonzi, ultrasound can help to change their mind with respect to a choice like abortion? Certainly
can help, although it must still be accompanied by an interview. Experience has taught me that the mother is essential for human contact, the moral support, to accommodate must feel accepted, should not feel alone. The woman knows that what he brings in is a child, he feels it and lives it every day, do not need the ultrasound image to get a perception of life. That's why I say yes if ultrasound is a step in the journey of awareness of women.
The decision has reignited the debate over freedom of abortion in the state of Texas. The opposition pro-choice along with the complaint not only the futility of law, but also the terrible psychological consequences of what he calls a "violent coercion" ...
The psychological consequences are heavier than those of abortion, since it begins to think, when you live, the later is a real ordeal. Yet even the experienced puts it away from the task again. Yesterday for example I met a woman who told me what had been for her terrible experience of abortion took place six years ago. He was crying, could not speak, she sobbed in describing each phase of abortion, detail after detail, tearfully told of when he heard a tube that aspired her child "I had a full belly and suddenly I felt empty," he said. Then he told what he lived later, the trauma and difficulties, but came here because I was considering an abortion again. The reason? He was afraid of not being able to keep the child. She works in black to 900 € per month, the husband earns half working as a dishwasher from time to time, there's the rent of 700 € to pay and a child of two years to grow. Here, this woman was lonely, it was not enough to have already lived through the terrible experience of abortion to convince her not to do it again, would not have believed even a cold ultrasound. Certainly if I imagine it happens in Texas, the U.S. is accompanied by an interview, then, yes, things can really change ...
How can a meeting to change its mind on something so important, I imagine that a woman has already had occasion to speak with people close to her before reaching the clinic, what you say more than others?
The interview is a delicate moment, it is not a chat between friends, but even a cold interrogation, it takes balance and professionalism, we must make room for the feelings of the woman to take any form, whether it be the silence, anger or tears . The woman needs to feel loved and not judged, and this is the first step, we add an actual offer of help and support, which also involves financial support that we strive to ensure wherever possible. And amazingly day by day we realize that it works, that the reception is the first ingredient for generating warmth.
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